There is a lot of talk about how blog commenting can increase the traffic on your website and thus “should improve the value” of your blog. Dennis commented on my last post “Stop Thinking, Start Acting” and I am quoting his comment here on the part where I said that getting traffic from fellow bloggers isn´t the best way to monetize your site, because I don´t agree with what he says:

“If I may politely and ever so slightly disagree – Yes, that’s exactly what it could lead to. What do potential advertisers (assuming you’re looking for them) like to see more then almost anything else? Activity. If you’re not “out there” no one will be in here.

I agree 100% that social activities shouldn’t be the bulk of ones time, but on the flip I woud never advise giving it up altogether either. Article marketing and the like is an awesome avenue like many others, but if no one knows who you are, never sees you around, how long is that going to last?”

There are a few things I would like to say about this comment and to clarify, these are my personal opinions and every body is free to think otherwise:

1. Fellow bloggers don´t bring in the money, especially not in the MMO niche
2. Potential Advertisers look at ROI not at just “activity”
3. Money comes from people searching for solutions, not from info addicts
4. I prefer long term strategies over short bursts of traffic
5. You don´t need to be a Big Name to get the Big Payouts

Yep, 5 reasons why I don´t agree with the above comment, sorry pal.

Fellow bloggers don´t bring in the money, especially not in the MMO niche

This one actually took me quite a long time to figure out *blushing here in shame*. Now anybody could argue and say but hey “look at John Chow” he is making tons of money off of “fellow MMO bloggers” but guess what, he is not your fellow blogger!

I mean, do you see him going round to other blogs and comment on everybody and their dog´s blog to get visitors in?? I bet he makes a lot of sales in the MMO niche because probably most people that find his blog are noobs that aren´t aware of the affiliate links placed everywhere.  But as soon as people start learning about the affiliate marketing structure, when buying any product I think that at least 90% will buy the product through their own link, not yours! And yes he probably earns big on advertising on his blog because he has a huge subscribers list.

Now anybody can argue with me that the “ethical way” to do things is to not steal affiliate links and replace them with your own before buying a product, but come on, be realistic about this. Your visitors don´t feel any fuzzy feelings towards any of the ads on your blog, so the chance of them stealing the affiliate link is much bigger, if they are visitors from the MMO niche.

Potential Advertisers look at ROI not at just any “activity”

This one is another thing I think one should really understand. Not any activity online is profitable, so you have to look at why a potential advertiser wants to buy ad space…

If I were to invest in putting an ad for any of my products or websites somewhere, I don´t look at the “front” activity in the meanings of how many comments there are on a particular blog. I mean, of course it looks fantastic, a blog with zillions of comments and such, but what if all of those comments are coming from other bloggers using blog commenting as a link building strategy? I bet at least a considerable percentage of comments are exactly that. I much rather advertise on a blog that can show me with statistics as proof that the bulk of their traffic comes from search engines, because those are the people actually looking for an answer, (after all, they did search for it, right?) and not regular fellow (info addict) bloggers.

So really, if you want to make money from your blog by getting advertisers to pay for your sidebar real estate and you want them to become long term investors, there should be a good ROI, in other words, the advertisement they put on your blog should bring in MONEY (not just clicks).

Money comes from people searching for solutions, not from info addicts

Another one that took me quite a bit to understand but now that I do, it just makes so much sense to me that I don´t get just why it took me such a long time to see the difference. All of the social sites like Digg, Tweeter and what not are full of people spending their time reading (and some researching), socializing and “staying on top of what is out there”. So yeah, these social sites can bring you a wave of traffic, but do you really think they are going to spend a dime on anything you are promoting?

They might, if you are lucky, but I bet there is a much higher probability that people who are looking for answers and solutions spend money than those who are just looking around, reading and socializing. Where do people look for answers and solutions? Do they go to tweeter to find a remedy for their blown up toe? Do they look at Digg to solve whatever problem they have?

……… Drumroll please…. they go to a search engine!

Ok, so you could arguee here that getting links from social sites is good too, but wouldn´t you prefer to be able to target potential buyers right where they start looking for their answers? And therefor spend most of your precious time actually focusing on getting the traffic that is looking for an answer with money in their pockets, willing to spend it?

Now it sounds logical to me -in hindsight of course- because my statistics are actually showing that it works better for me to get traffic through search engines instead of social sites and socialing on other blogs. And by statistics I mean ROI not just any activity!

I prefer long term strategies over short bursts of traffic

I will never say that people shouldn´t comment, socialize, digg, tweet or whatever to get traffic to their site. I mean, if you want to spend your time being sociable, please go ahead and do so. I did and boy was I excited in the beginning of this blog to see sudden bursts of 3, 4, 500 visits in a day. It would make my day, seriously.

And man it was wonderful to see some great comments and getting recognition from other bloggers, it sure did feed my ego. Did it feed my wallet though? Did the traffic continue at the same rate as soon as I stopped actively promoting a site? Guess you can tell me the answer yourself but if you can´t, I will tell you… as soon as I stopped spending hours commenting on other blogs, clicking entrecards and trying to land a few good Diggs, the traffic slowed down big time.

However, when putting out articles in different places, targeting my keywords on my sites, and actually seeing my search engine rankings go up for quality longtails, traffic started coming in and keeps coming in after only publishing a few articles per page.

You don´t need to be a Big Name to get the Big Payout

Now this might go against anything you have probably seen out there, after all, people only spend their money when they trust the source, right? At least, that is told on all the MMO blogs I have seen so far and in a way it makes sense if you are a MMO blogger yourself. So it is said that you should put yourself out there, comment on other blogs, socialize so that people actually get to know you, trust you and then buy your products, right?

I sincerely think this only goes if what you are trying to sell is your OWN product, or if you have a HUGE mailing list. Now, huge mailing lists aren´t build in a week, nor in a month if you don´t actually buy them or invest a ton of money in getting the leads or whatever. And please realize that I am not saying here that being a big name is bad, I am just saying that you don´t need to BE one to actually get money.

This realization actually came after I started using the One Week Marketing Plan by PotPieGirl and probably in the near future I am going to put up a review on that program (even though I realize that fellow MMO bloggers won´t bring me any cash ROFL), but I do feel it is important to break down the myth of “being a big name is the way to bring in big money”.

Just think about this one for a bit. Look at any of the marketers out there that are making it big time. They might have a flagship website that is attached to their name, but do you really think that is the only website that brings in the cash? Or could it be quite possible that they run numerous other sites without attaching their name to it?

And another thing to think about for a bit. If you really need to be seen out there to get somewhere, how come PPC is a huge market? After all PPC-ers don´t show their name or face, right? What they do is lead target traffic to a certain website that sells a product, without “them being seen in the scene”, right?

So basically, what I am getting at is that as an article marketer, you don´t need to become famous, you need to choose the product you want to promote correctly, make sure you target traffic that is looking for solutions and answers, willing to spend money and then lead them to that product. The one that needs to be “seen” after all is the product you are getting affiliate commission for.

My conclusion:

As far as article marketing and “how long it is going to last” I think the longevity is much higher than any commenting or socialization strategy

Too many people are getting sucked into the MMO scene and what other MMO-ers are spreading out there and therefor are defying their own chances of actually building a real business online.

Too many people over estimate the value of social traffic and blog commenting, too many people underestimate the true value of search engine traffic. Too many people keep researching and try finding the “secret to making money online fast” without taking action.

You as a visitor can take these words any way you want, after all, who do I really think I am without showing a $36,000.00 monthly pay check?

Am I telling you to stop commenting, socializing and what not? No, not saying that you should, just saying that you should make sure you use your time wisely if you want to build a real business out of creating websites and affiliate marketing.

But please do yourself a favor if you want to build a business online, get serious and take action doing things that give you a good return on investment, whether that be time, money and/or effort.

As you might know I have recently changed tactics and the main goal of making these changes was to increase my productivity level. When I first started this blog I thought it to be very important to get in touch with other bloggers and comment on their blogs so that they would come back and put a comment on my blog.

Sure it was great to see the comments per posts increasing as well as getting more visitors to this blog. It was great for my ego, but that was about all that it would produce. An ego boost and wasting an aweful amount of time looking for new information to improve my blog and tweak and twitch the look and feel of it.

It sure was a fun time and I did learn quite a bit. There is however a negative side to contacting and reading a lot of MMO bloggers, and that is that they/we tend to overthink things and sooner or later instead of being really productive we can spend hours and hours working without getting anywhere.

Ok, we might be getting traffic from fellow bloggers and we might be getting a lot of comments, but really, be honest, where does that lead anyways? Does it put a lot of money in your pocket?

Last month I have been turning things upside down. Instead of doing the “social thing” I went into private mode so to say. I don´t want to become famous on twitter, myspace or whatever other social networks there are out there, so why would I bother spending hours connecting and wasting time that I could very well use to actually build a business?

I needed another plan. Another layout I could stick to and make it my work schedule.

The Schedule I am following today

So I got the One Week Marketing Plan… eventhough I had pledged to never ever in my whole life to buy another ebook. And even when writing this post I am laughing at myself, I mean, here I am telling that I want to become more productive and then I go out, buy another book on MMO and instead of acting I read even more. Oh well, you gotta be able to laugh at your own actions right?

Anyways, like I said, I needed a plan after all this time “working” online I had gotten so brainwashed by all the crap that can be found when it comes to making money online, that I had to make a fresh start and just go about things step by step.

That was about 3 weeks ago already and since then I must say my productivity level, even though it still isn´t where I want it to be, has improved dramatically. My daily activities have gone from commenting, researching, socializing, learning and posting (the fun way of spending work time that most MMO-ers are guilty of) to building websites/lenses and then promoting and building links to them through article marketing.

Most of the time I get this done with the blindfolders on because as soon as I start doing any common MMO activity I am lost again.

Bloggers – “make money onliners” – waste so much time that they could easily be compared to the millions of 12 year olds who play video games six to eight hours per day. Why do video game addicts do what they do? Because it’s fun; it’s an escape from reality to get online with your buddies and kill aliens for hours at a time. While they’re playing video games they don’t have to think about anything that stresses them. Are bloggers any different?

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Are you guilty of being an MMO-er?

I never really understood the difference between the MMO movement and those marketers that were actually building their own business. I really thought they went hand in hand. Want to know what the difference is?

MMO-ers get sucked into the information highway by their fellow bloggers and start reading a lot of “how to get rich articles” written by people who aren´t putting their own words into practice themselves but think that if only they stick with that type of posting long enough, success will eventually rub off on them. After all, they are talking the right talk, right?

So I decided I did not want to get sucked into more information addiction, which is why I changed the path of this blog. I did get the One Week Marketing Plan because I needed to stick to something literally, plus I started using Unique Article Wizard apart from submitting articles to EzineArticles.com.

And just before you start wondering, I did actually already submit 5 articles to both UAW and EzineArticles.com before taking a break to write this post

Now my questions to you… can you guess what I see happening with my stats? Can you guess which way of promotion is getting me more click throughs to my affiliate programs, the former “blogcommenting-socializing-MMO-addiction” or my present “creating webpages-article submission combination”?

Which path will eventually lead to a substantial and steady income?

In my last post I wrote:

So now I should really look at what I have learned this year and whether it has been worth it to run this blog, but more importantly, why I should keep it going another year. Before writing a post with my conclusions later this week, I would like to take the opportunity to thank all my readers and commentators who have participated and made this year of MeMyselfAndIBlog a joyous one!

That was after realizing I had actually missed the first birthday of this blog. Obviously the MeMyselfAndIBlog is going to be around for another year, seeing that I did pay the domain name again.

Over the course of last week I have been thinking hard about where to go with this blog, whether to continue writing here, what to write about but more importantly why I should keep on writing anyways.

One thing was clear though, things have to change. First half year I have spent a LOT of time reading… some may say I have wasted that time, others may say “cool, nothing wrong with reading, more power to ya!”.

So now it is about time to put the reading I have done and the things I have learned to work. Not halfheartedly but with utter complete focus. Basically what it comes down to, I will have to put on blinders and put all the things I have learned over the past year to work, and work hard.

So what is that going to mean for this blog?

It means I am going to strip it down to it´s bare basics. Straight forward posts. The clutter removed from the side-bar and most “monetization” removed (yes, that means I will cancel the exit traffic on this blog). If ever something shows up in the sidebar promoting something, I will let you know why it is there. 

Another thing is that I won´t be doing any promotion for this blog at all. Maybe I might put the occasional comment on a blog post here and there, but not with the idea in the back of my mind of “creating backlinks to my blog” or “driving traffic” or anything like that.

Yep, I am crazy like that…doing no promotion at all is probably going to be complete blogosphere suicide.

But remember the name of this place?

Me Myself And I Blog

Feel free to keep stopping by to read or subscribe to my RSS, feel free to keep on commenting, but I am going to do a really selfish thing and that is focus on ME.

My Time.

My Dreams.

My Work.

My Future.

What will these changes mean for You?

Well… I really don´t think your world will stop turning or that your life will come to a hold.

You will be able to read at least one post weekly, written by yours truely, with updates on my new ventures and how things really are working out.

You can comment and get some exposure for your website through my commentluv plugin. You can show up in the Comment Champs Top 5 with a link to your site if you make comments that add to the value of the posts, say hi, make me laugh with a funny comment or just let me know how plain selfish I am.

Whatever rocks your boat.

I might also occasionally start sharing what is working out for me.

I might even think of writing a few short downloads that could be useful for you, sort of step-by-step blueprints or whatever you want to call them.

The posts that I will be writing are hopefully going to be so darn helpful, so bloody motivational or just so plain annoying and/or provocative that they will tease you into linking to them.

The biggest change that is that this blog is going to be:

• About productivity – the real thing, not goofing around online
• About challenging myself to reach higher and maybe challenge you
• About showing what works and what doesn´t
• About walking the walk without so much talking the talk
• Maybe even about inspiring you to get to work too.

Yeah…. I guess that will do it for now

This post is a follow up on Saturday´s post so I am glad you decided to come back and read about my little sweet success.

To catch up, I had decided to make a new website that would take in account the things I had learned so far, avoid the mistakes I had made earlier and actually follow a special plan for promotion and building the website.

So far so good, maybe I am just a slow learner in certain aspects, maybe I am just too lazy when it comes to certain things, but what I felt had been missing big time was a plan.

Really it is no rocket science at all!

The idea for the new website domain came by a message I read on the MoreNiche forum that made so much sense to me that I just felt stupid that I hadn´t thought of it myself. You see, the biggest problem I foresaw with promoting this product was the actual price it is selling at.

Being a “net-surfer savvy” I had found a lot of similar products that were way cheaper and with the recent crisis going on and the dollar being so ridiculously low I was starting to break my head over the price.

Anyways to make a long story short, I got a new domain name… fresh energy and a plan of attack.

At the time that I was thinking of what to do with this product and whether I should or not continue with it, I finally got into BumMarketing quite a bit and had signed up for a free course by Travis Sago. Now if you have never heard of BumMarketing or are trying it without results so far, I definately recommend you follow this free course since it was what made the difference for me!

The things Travis says might be known already, but for me it turned out to be a little blueprint to go about how to succeed with my new website. Some things really hit home hard and I realized he was pointing out exactly where all my efforts had gone haywire so far.

Yesterday a month ago I bought the domain. I had my plan in place and decided that instead of making a static website I´d opt for a WP blog. No need to teach an old dog new tricks and I knew I would save a lot of time using a blog instead of a static website, since I have been building them for quite a while and it just comes easy to me.

First week I worked on the design and SEO site of the blog while I outsourced most of  the content. This gave me the opportunity to get a little headstart on things before going off for my trip in the second week of this new project.

Second week I was gone, having fun, relaxing with my folks and enjoying the good life and Excellent Food during a lifetime experience. This week actually gave me some time to think and look from a distance at my work and little business. And knowing the content was being taken care off while away, I could sit back a bit.

Third week into the new project, I started adding all the content and doing article marketing, submitting around 20 articles to EzineArticles and articlemarketer and submitting my site to different directories. Another thing I did once I had enough content on my site was starting to answer questions on Yahoo from people that could very much profit from my product and then sending them to the post that would help them finding the solution to their problem.

I started seeing an increase in visits and clickthroughs on my affiliate links but nothing happened. It just stayed at that… more visitors, more clicks … no sales. But hey …. week 3 of a new domain, very few links to my website still so nothing too weird.

I have to go for now but I promise to post on Wednesday and tell you what changes I made to my website, why I did it, what gave me an extra push to put in more effort and why this sale is so special to me.

So if you are interested in finding out what was the turning point for me, I´ll see you on Wednesday!

For now, keep planning your succes!

I´m writing this post to let you all know that this blog will be temporarily closed for me taken a small holiday!

That is right, I will of course return, but this weekend I will be off to the north of Spain for a short visit with my folks.

I have been looking forward to it for ages now, since it is going to be the first time in years that I am really going on a holiday. Of course living in Spain myself, I don´t really need to go on holiday, since the countryside itself offers so much relaxation already, but actually leaving my area and not connecting every day to work on my websites will certainly give me the possibility to completely relax and take a bit of a distance from what I have been up to lately.

I always love driving long distances and even though all my friends think I am crazy for driving almost a 1000 kilometers on my own, I can´t wait to leave. Driving through Spain is probably one of the most beautiful routes I have ever made, the changing countryside looks like there are different countries in one and just the fact of being alone in my car, the music on and the long road ahead has a big effect on me.

An effect of complete relaxation, the time to think about a lot of things without being interrupted and clearing my head, almost as if it were a meditation session.

So yes, it will be great for me!

I will be back the first week of December

so see you all then!

A while back I already wrote about my outsourcing experiences and since I have recently upped the amount of work I outsource quite a bit, I thought I should write a short post about what I look for when hiring people.

I tried a few platforms to contact with people looking for freelance work but have mostly used getafreelancer.com so far. Before actually starting to outsource I read up a little bit on the subject and compared different projects that were already online to see what I could expect. Read the rest of this entry

As a result of drastically wanting to change my life, I have started to put all my time and effort into learning about blogging and working hard on improving my own knowledge and skills. Over the last half year I have been doing a lot of research online, reading material of successful bloggers and people who are only just starting out, but what I mostly found was posts on how rich and happy they already were or on how rich and happy they wanted to become, without really sharing what to do in order to become succesful.

Some blogs sparked the light of hope and wanting to achieve things for myself, other blogs actually got me down and discouraged, thinking I would never make it.

A lot of material I came across felt like yet another post on the same, over and over again. The funny thing is that, once in a certain circle, you keep bumping in to the same bloggers, the same comments and the same blogs over and over again, which is curious if you come to think of the amount of blogs out there and diversity of interests all over the world.

But last night, when I was just about to reach my cut off time and ready to turn off my computer, I ran into a blog I wish I had found before. A blog packed with so many great posts and original content that it had me up and reading till 5 am this morning. A blog so inspirational that it had me going back when I finally woke up today.

Going back to its first post, dating the 12th of February 2007, I realised it has not even been online for a year and when it was started, it kind of felt it hadn´t found its own voice yet, although I believe the owner of the blog, Courtney Tuttle had his vision and goals well worked out.

I was searching for mistakes newbie bloggers make, because earlier that day I had seen a post of a Blogger Biggy making fun of newbies with a patronising and denigrating tone to it, an attitude I can´t stand in people. In retrospect, I actually am grateful he ticked me off, for it was because of that post that I came across Courts Internet Marketing School.

If I could only read one blog, this would definitely be the One, for it goes way beyond other blogs, offering sound advice, inspiration, motivation and tools to improve and keep improving my work. His list of 102 Ways to Make your Blog a backlink Superstar should be obligated material to read for any blogger out there who has a true desire to improve their blog.

So, if you could only read one blog, which one would it be?