The Ugly Beast that Kills Business – Does IT Kill Yours?
This morning I woke up and found an email from a dear friend of mine. We have been talking quite a bit these past few months (boy, seems like we have known each other for years LOL) and I have been trying to help her set up a few blogs and explain a few things.
In her email at one point she mentioned she had bought some software to make videos that would bring more traffic in than any other program (heck, that is something all of us want right, more traffic!). I received that sales email yesterday as well and decided to have a look, but after a few minutes I closed the screen and went on.
She on the other hand, decided to go ahead and buy the software.
As I was responding to her email, I noticed that all the things I said to her, actually applied to myself and that is what caused me to write this post.
See… in my mind there is one big ugly beast that kills business for internet marketers and the only way to actually become a success online is to kill that beast.
That beast is the Internet marketer him/herself.
Not the person, but their actions or lack thereof…
Now the sales mail explained how to easily make “killer videos” to create a huge amount of traffic, sales pitches like “this video was created in 2 minutes”, “how many can you make a day”, referring to the amount of traffic each video surely was gonna get etc. So yeah, I could imagine anybody watching the sales pitch to start having visions of receiving thousands and thousands of uniques to all their affiliate sites per day, raking in the money as we speak. Besides, it was only a small investment, 40 or 50 dollar I believe, so hey, you would be crazy not to buy it, right?
I am sure that many people watching that sales video and listening to the voice telling he himself was technically challenged and all but with this software he was able to create a traffic monster video in a few minutes, would think they could do the same.
Please understand that I am not ditching the idea of creating videos in order to create traffic, nor am I saying that nobody should buy into the sales pitch, nothing like that.
What I am trying to get at is that before buying yet another piece of software, or yet another “big traffic generator” one stops and thinks about the reason they are not getting enough traffic as we speak.
I mean…there are just so many free resources online that will create targeted streams of traffic, as long as you are willing to put in the elbow grease and work them.
There is no magic pill, no magic formula, creating traffic no matter what anybody says, takes work, it takes time to do the research and find a proper niche, do the research and find proper keywords to rank, and it takes time to create links so that more and more people will find your affiliate site.
So as I was responding to my friend, saying that I wasn’t gonna buy that software because chances are, I am not going to use it, I started thinking about all the resources I already have at my disposal and am not using to the fullest potential myself.
See, after all this time online and seeing so many new launches, so many new products that would pave my way to everlasting riches, there is one thing that any product lacks. One big flaw that no product seems to be able to fix. And probably no product creator wants to fix that flaw because it would mean that any new launch would become redundant and useless.
The big flaw in any moneymaking product is the USER of that product.
And I am not referring to the lack of ability to actually use the product, rather am I referring to the lack of interest to really use whatever tools available already and keep working productively at creating more content and more links to websites to generate traffic.
Back to that video creating software, in the sales pitch it was said that it only takes 2 minutes to create that traffic pulling video, but really come on guys, anybody believes that?
Just a quick reality check here:
- You have to find the idea for the video
- You have to find the product to promote
- You have to find the text
- You have to find some images
- You have to find some background music
- You have to put the video together (which will take a bit longer then 2 minutes, especially in the beginning)
- You have to save the video (and then be able to find it on your computer
) - You have to upload it to youtube or any other video site
So yeah… it looks like a great piece of software, and probably if you are really motivated and able to figure out things really fast, work on caffeine and all you will be able to create one video in 15-30 minutes, maybe bring that down a bit the more you work with it and familiarize yourself with the how-to´s and short cuts.
My thought, chances are that after 2 or 3 videos, maybe some will even make it to 7 or 8, most people will throw in the towel or better said, get sidetracked by yet another new product that makes traffic generating even easier! My estimation is that only a very low percentage of those that buy the software will actually put it to the fullest potential and actually get to the stage where they see their hard work pay off, traffic streaming in, sales going up and get even more motivated to create more videos.
I actually made 40-50 dollars just by passing on and not buying the software cause I know that I belong to the group of people that would give up after a few videos, getting bored out of my head or just feeling it takes too long to keep going.
Acknowledging my flaw is one step on the right track, second step is getting back to work and be productive today, so I am off for now. I would really like to hear your thoughts on all this though!
Are you guilty of buying too many products and then not using them?
Are you guilty of having resources available and have them gather dust
Are you guilty of always looking out for the next best thing?
Are YOU killing your own business?
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So so true Mirjam. After being around for a bit, you can really spot those things that you are not going to use after the first two attempts
lol..
But just to illustrate, sometimes, even if given a really good product, one that if you followed the instructions was sure to make you sales, people would just put it away for yet another new and improved system.
I think there’s some basic design flaw in people that makes us do it.
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hey Alex! yeah… that is why I wrote: “The big flaw in any moneymaking product is the USER of that product” …
So how come we are that way?
Not seeing pay-off fast enough?
Thinking there must be an even better way to riches?
Just plain laziness?
Unwillingness to work?
Getting bored with the “rinse and repeat”?
The “grass being greener on the other side”?
Still wanting to believe in a faster way to avoid having to put the ellbow grease in?
Fear of failure to stick with one program?
…..
Have a nice weekend!
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Alex at Net-Entrepreneur.com Reply:
May 30th, 2009 at 9:53 pm
Nice weekend… rrrrr. Right.
Let me tell you something about my weekend.
First of all, there was some sort of a holiday, so the “weekend” started for me on Thursday, me being the kid-sitter for the day. I’m happy to be with my kid, but when you got a momentum built up with your projects these stuff is like stuffing a stick in a bicycle wheel.
Having a few projects in the pipeline that have potential to finally bring us to another level got my head full of “online marketing” instead of “real life parenthood”…
Friday and Saturday were hectic family time again, looking for activities to get ourselves busy.
I had the evenings to work for a few hours, but being exhausted from all the running around doesn’t let you be too productive.
So, here we are now, horror day-dreams of office jobs fleeting through my exhausted mind. Just finished creating a landing page and going to Aweber to set-up a campaign, which is usually soooooooo-boring.
How’re you doing?
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Mirjam Reply:
June 1st, 2009 at 8:30 am
I´m doing not too bad, not too bad at all. Had a really nice weekend actually, enjoying some offline time with the bf (no kids for me
) and now ready again to start a new fresh week.
I finally sorted things out with UAW but gotta say they were very responsive and helpfull turned out you signed up under a dormant account for some reason but they have now transferred it to my active account, so thanks for that
Have you been working with it so far?
I have begun a little private “competition” with a friend of mine to get more motivated to work on a certain program, so I am working the better part of this week on that project, see who gets the first commission on that LOL
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I recently deleted several gigs of stuff off the HD, so yea I know what you mean.
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Mirjam Reply:
June 1st, 2009 at 8:32 am
hey Dennis!
I should really have a HD spring clean myself and free up space … so much stuff “gathering dust” over here … incredible.
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I’ve just started the business recently. So I haven’t bought a lot of things yet. I’m still waiting to make some cash before investing in something. I’m already doing quite well with both Adsense and Kontera though.
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Hi Benjamin, welcome to my blog and I wish you the best in your ventures
Maybe you should have a look at the One Week Marketing Plan to make money with affiliate marketing, it is the one product I wish I had come across when I first started working online, and stick with it. Well, basically, stick with anything that is working for you and build that up steadily
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I’m guilty of doing things and then procastinating my way back to it. i tend to just do something and leave it there unfinished and hardly ever finishing any project. I dont know why i do that but that’s my killer right there. its not like back when i was in my early 20’s when i was motivated about everything and finished everything i’ve started.
i guess with a family and in my late 20’s i’ve grown lazy, i even gained a few more pounds and no more gym or working out and not even watching the programs i used to or even doing the things i always enjoyed. now i just work, project, food, kids and of course the wife.
We need more than 24 hours in a day and i need to kill that.
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hey Pheak, nice to see you again
I hear ya, at times it is not all that easy to stay on the right track LOL but I am sure you will be able of making some changes if you set your mind to it!
Have a nice weekend!
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Very nicely written, and agreed with. I have tons of files that, at one time in my life, I just downloaded, expecting to have time to get to it all. Nope, hasn’t happened. I will say this, though. Every single thing I bought I’ve read, which does put me ahead of some of the folks, and I’ve even implemented some of it, or followed and tried some of the recommendations, which probably puts me ahead of a few more people.
Still, I need to do more, promote more, grow more, sell more, read more, learn more, make more. After that, I have no more to say.
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